Have you ever seen couples that argue and seem like they about to rip each other apart yet in the next moment are smiling and passionate towards one another?
Yet for other couples, the argument stops fast but it leads to resentment and pain. You keep talking about the same marriage problems but the situation only gets worse.
The difference between these two marriages is the level of TRUST.
When you trust one another, you can argue and disagree but when the storm passes you feel passion and love. It happens in a blink of an eye.
The issue with trust is that its always built when there is difficulty and hard times. When you make it through that the relationship will grow.
In these times you are tempted to influence your partner to see your side and place your needs first. But when you do the opposite in stressful times he or she gets to see that you are increasing the bond of trust rather than weakening it.
They know that despite what happens in the moment you have their best interest at heart.
There is a specific way to build trust since each relationship is different. Men feel trust more when they feel significant.Women when they feel loved and have a great sense of connection feel the bond of trust.
There is a specific way to build trust when you face the storm.
Whats the level of trust in your marriage. How do you know that? If you face a storm can you withstand that easily. If not look into rebuilding trust again.
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